I am debuting, I am sad and decayed.I need advice.

Has that really told you about the educator?Not that I doubt you, but I find it so hard to believe that a "professional" has told you that ...

I do not know what is the origin of your depression, but you have to realize that life is very short and that it is not worth wasting time with depressions, because that time is lost time.And you are young, you have a lifetime ahead to do what you want.You can have boyfriends, and leave them, have jobs and leave them, you can travel, live wherever you want, also having diabetes.
In addition, between diabetes and depression there is a very short distance, and you have to always maintain that security distance because depression and diabetes are not good companions.

I don't know what the relationship with your family is either, but don't you think it would be good to tell it?The family and friends are for the good and for the bad.Don't you think it could be good to have a shoulder to cry and vent?Anyone who gives you a hug and tells you "what a small injustice that has touched you, but that you will see that everything will work out"?I sincerely think I was going to relieve you and give new energies to take that penalty from within.

Jo, I have released you, I hope you haven't depressed you anymore ... hehehe

Lola that maja you are hehe if I understand what you want to tell me, that I am young and I have a lifetime ahead have always told me, the problem is that I do not feel young or believe/I want to have much more life ahead.

About the educator, because, indeed, and with paper in hand I tell you that I have been diagnosed with type 2, and with the same explanations that I told you.I will ask again to see if it was a lapse of yours but we are going, it was clearly like that, it is also true that I started with another educator, a young girl super nice, and I told me about this educator, and that ... it was not very good, therefore there we have the answer.

I asked me about the diet that I follow, I am doing it, I am doing so, I sign up everything until the time when, or the hypos that give me and good with the banana that also "investigated", I took one and I went up to 110 (1h after) I don't know if it's right or bad, but I have realized that the ketchup goes up, fried potatoes, UF hamburgers or smell them, it goes up to more than 200,I don't know if it will be for bread, for ketchup ... I don't miss him either!But well if I have to avoid it, with the pasta I already bother me more to me I love to eat pasta, rice .. and I have also realized that coffee lowers me, is it normal?
Uf I just took a test of dinner, and I have it at 203 ... I know, I have sinned and I have eaten some very few spaghettis and a cream of asparagus that goes over ... it has not been the best option...

Well I'm going to sleep very much thanks to all you are super good people.

As for diabetes, it refers:

- 8.8 of glycosilada is not much, I debuted with 15.5: Twisted:

- It is urgent that you go to the endocrine ... If they just diagnosed you, it is not acceptable that they meet for 2-3 months later ... I exempted to visit you again and but complaint in writing.

- It is mandatory that you see many times more to a good educator;I sign up 3 educators names in Murcia: Zoila Lymphante, Juana Maria Hernández and Margarita Flores (the same of them is the savage that has told you about type 2 diabetes: shock :).
You need an intensive diabetes course ... We have all passed by, it is essential to learn a theoretical basis, then you will be able to control yourself.

-In addition to this forum, it would be good if you contacted more people with diabetes ... Maybe an association could help you: Sodimur: C/ Serrano Alcazar, 1. 1stb Link

As for the rest:

- Taking into account that you are not superwoman;) (I suppose) you need someone to download part of the emotions ... "eat" alone the problems do not usually give good results ... and I tell you from my own experience, I have had"

I differentiate between feelings (which are only mine) and emotions (which I share with them: joy, sadness, anger .... moods).

I agree with what they tell you, it is not good that you close so much, I do not think it is a good idea not to share the diagnosis of diabetes with your family or with someone close, that they are going to worry ????Of course, if they love you they will worry, it is the logical thing, but there you are to show them that you are strong and that you will be able to with that and with whatever it comes .....
I would not like anything that someone I want (family, partner) hid something for not worrying, we are for the good and for the bad, right?I would feel very disappointed ... :(
The only thing you get with this isolation is to sharpen depression ... and feed those so negative feelings you have.
As Owash tells you, it is not normal for you not to see you an endocrine until April, it is unheard of and change your educator for God ... how can you tell you so many barbarities together ??????uffff ....

A kiss

Hi Sho_Shi, I totally agree with Owash, Prado, Lola .... Dare Woman who is not so bad, I always know, if you come to you black thoughts to mind, then send them to fry asparagus, (but don't say it aloudWell, they think that you are loquilla), I do it and it works for me, I also have a slight depression with anxiety and I also medical ... and when I feel that way, I go for a walk, I take a shower, I put aLaughter movie or I get into the forum ... Finally do anything but think about your existence and waterThey will disappear little by little, it cost me, but now I am a lot better.Try it and then tell me.: D

Hi Sho_Shi:

First of all, welcome to the "sweet" forum, I see that the companions are helping you and animating you, you are in very good hands, I do not know what else to tell you that they would not tell you, locking yourself is the easiest, the difficult thing is to plant itFace to life and that is what you have to do, music in general is very good to cheer up, go for a walk, look at shop windows, go to the movies and especially observe the human being, you learn the truth a lot.

The forum is how a group therapy that will be very good, because there is experience and much, surely you learn more from them than from the doctor who touches you.

A kiss and encouragement: P

Cloud

Hello so-shy !!
Many have already spent telling you their experiences and giving you many spirits.I join them.
Look, we have all passed by, either in the first person or as mothers or diabetic fathers (which I assure you is much worse).We all understand how you feel.My son Juan debuted with 11 years, it seemed to me that his life had gone to Pique.We had taken care of his diet, played sports, he was a good student, responsible, sympathetic, etc ... (mother's passion: oops :).And suddenly, the world came down, it seemed to me that his life was going to be full of inconveniences, of diseases, of limitations, that he was going to have a superstrctic diet ... I imagined that he could not do excursions with his companionsNor to make trips ... I didn't stop crying, I spent the nights watching him while he slept in case he gave him a hiccup.Anyway ... you can imagine ...
Well now, Juan is 16 years old.I assure you that in these 5 years, his life has been totally normal, it is still as it was before, he points to all the excursions, he has a lot of friends, he does a lot of sport ... in this forum they know that he has already goneTwice to ski with the institute, being an week every time, and he has done it like the other kids.Although I was worried, I do not transmit my concern, I no longer overproterate because I saw that I did not need it.Although I always still pending ...
I tell you all this (although it seems a roll) so you can see that diabetes does not have to change your life.You have also passed adolescence, which is possibly the most difficult stage.So if Juan (and many more kids in the forum) have been able to be able to?
Come Dare!He accounts the people closest to you.It is important that if it gives you a hiccup in front of them, know how to act.
A hug

By the way SO_Shy, there is low sugar ketchup: D ... that as soon as you put a little up to date with rations and insulin units you will see how you can eat potatoes, hamburgers or pasta ...
I also went through depression and I can get the idea of ​​how you feel, although one can overcome, I did it and I am not stronger or weak than anyone.Psychologists help, yes, you have to find a good one, and I tell you about experience too, but above all you have to have a good thing to get good, I assure you that it can be achieved ....
And then everything is like a vicious circle, you feel better and that is encouraging you .... courage !!!

Thank you very much for taking so many discomfort with me.

Yesterday, I tried to tell some friends what happened to me, but it was fair to drink Sunday coffee and I thought it was the best moment, that being like that I could tell it in a more smiling way, but it was only to say the phrase I have youWhat to say one thing, because I already started crying so I could not, but I will, I know that I have to do it but I have to take more strength, and my family, PUF, I will tell him too but understand me I can not yet, it is a situationSo difficult, as Mamidejuan said, that same situation through which she spends is what I want to avoid my mother, and although I now be 24 years old, I suppose that when it happens to you with your 11 son you still see it more helpless.

On Thursday I have an appointment with my super educator, I will see what can I do with that of changing it, where is it asked?I get a lot of repair to do that and look so bad but it is that .... Owash, the ones you have named me is none of them, but those are from the S.Social?I have no idea how to ask for that change, but I would be good ... this Thursday that I have an appointment with her, I will also tell her that if it is possible that the appointment with the endocrine is as soon as possible, since 2 months seems to me a burial andI am so lost, I need a lot to give me a lot of info.

A very big hug, I will tell you if I change the educator and advance it with the endo.
Besazos

So-shy, sometimes it is easier to open up to strangers, and if it helps you do it here, go ahead.

I think you have many open fronts and that you are fighting many battles at the same time, and that overflows you.I would simply tell you that you can't.You are not Superwoman.You try to save sufferings to others, and what you do is drown in them.Well, you can't.

I am not a psychologist, or anything similar, but my common sense tells me that battles can only be fought one by one, not all at once, so my advice is that you feel quietly and establish priorities: go to the doctor, change as educator, start learning about diabetes, tell your mother ...

And here you still have us.

Cheer up

Good So_Shy, all the tips that are giving you here seem good to me.But Alea I think he has given you a key point.Take a few minutes or a few hours ... whatever you need and make you a list ... Nothing mental ... with a paper and a pencil ... and write as a priority what you have to do ... you will also have the satisfaction of crosuring things and you will be more optimistic.
The truth is that yours with doctors is bad luck, because the psychologists is to eat them apart.But return to the same ... change until you really.
I do not know how the specialist change works in Murcia, here it is requested in patient attention ... but it depends on the center.Anyway, there is surely some point in the center where they can inform you, surely in the same counters that give you appointments can inform you.Anyway, it could be interesting to go to an association of diabetics, surely they can guide you.
Regarding telling someone ... calm ... everything will walk.To your family and that ... it will be told when you have assumed it ... I propose something, to see what you think ... in the work, to your classmates, do not tell you to communicate, to open you, to share ... say it forPure and mere interest, coldly ... that is, people, whether better or worse companion, if something happens to you, you will know what to do or how to react and they will not stop providing assistance if you need it.Do not do it to seek support or relief, simply for your safety.And quiet, you'll find the time to tell more close people.But before that, you have to be convinced that diabetes is a pain, but that it does not prevent you from doing and being what you want, without giving up what you like (not even a dish of spaghetti)

A kiss !!

They already know two companions, one because he gave me a low and his ex -boyfriend to be diabetic immediateA little less than a month ago, now I can stop hiding in front of her when they give me the hypos, and the other partner because I appreciate her very much and she, and told her that I always wanted to urinate and told me that thatIt could be a symptom of, so I have told him and he is supporting me a lot, I know that although they are partners, it must only be mere informative, but I am very emotional, and I need that if someone knows it apart from knowledge, I need aLittle support and take something serious ... but for now I don't wantALANTE.

A very strong and large kiss and billions of thanks to your advice

I'm a lot that you know in the work!And that girl's boyfriend?If it is diabetic, can it even guide you, right?Well, whenever you are taking it seriously.
I really.Here we continue for what you need.And little by little ... that it will take more or less, but with the effort you are putting, surely you end up dominating it perfectly.

Kisses!

Thank you very much Sweety, my friend's problem is that her boyfriend is not her boyfriend, she is her ex, but according to me when they were boyfriends she was disastrous and had an uncontrolled control, she drinks a lot, a bit of barbarities, pizzas, etc.Come on, he did not take care of him, now I know something else is taken care of but he doesn't take it very seriously, but nevertheless I ask my compi if I ask for example today with the hypo that has given me I have asked him ifA piece of fruit was little and he told me to take something else, and I have taken a mightest and well that .. that if he can throw me a man, what I did not know is that my boss's mother was diabetics(He died not long ago) Therefore, do you think that if he found out, could he take me out of work?

a hug

Your boss, I don't think, should be more sensitized than others who don't know the disease I think.In my case that happens, my boss had his diabetic parents (they already died) and also has diabetic brothers, when he hired me I knew that I was diabetic, and when I have a descent he is understanding.As for the drink I do not drink alcohol now because as I said I am medical before, but they taught me that I could drink all those liquors that were dry: gin, whiskey, brandy, came .., but that in moderationBecause alcohol lowers glucose and you can also confuse a descent with a drunkenness.
Kisses: d

Well, over time you will see how alcohol works in your body, and you will drink what you like with control, or good without control but with knowledge hehe.I would advise you to avoid it for the moment until you control other important things such as hypos and hydrates.When you see how you control the hypos because you will try, before it can be a bit dangerous ... I tell you from experience.

I'm glad you open a little, you don't have to tell everyone either, but that little step you have given is very good. Take it to your boss, because it depends as it is, you know her better and you will know how toHe will take it.If it is a little thistle, then wait a little to tell it until you feel safer with diabetes.And if it's nice, because when you see the moment you tell him.

Come on that you are going well.

Hello good,
I am with Lola, of course you can take alcohol in moderation (as everyone should do), but I would wait a bit to be controlled.The educator has to teach you how you have to do it.Keep in mind that (I explain it in a somewhat gross way) if it gives you serious hypoglycemia when you are drinking or shortly after, your liver is responsible for distilling and discarding alcohol ... with which you will not be able to assist you if it gives you aHypoglycemia releasing the glucagon that we stored for emergencies.Let's say the liver is something "silly" and can only do one thing at a time.If the hypo is mild, you can solve it.Alcohol makes a peak, glycemia and loss rises.Another thing that is usually done is to take nuts, are slow absorption hydrates ... Anyway ... that all this will explain much much better your educator, you will see that it also depends on whether you dance or not ... (When you find a decent, of course, that the insurance that tells you that you never drink).
Regarding your boss, I also believe as Velia, which can be more understanding, but you may know.There I would walk with some caution, because even if it is quite unfair, worse things have been seen.
And from your friend's former you can learn a lot of things .... what you don't have to do, hahaha :)) :))
You have commented that you took an apple with a hypo ... if it is mild, that is, if you see that it is going down and it is not to follow, I think the apple is fine.But if you are already with the hypo, the best is somewhat more ... fast.Something that goes very well is juice, if you look at the composition, the Briks these straw girls usually have about 10-12gr, that is, as a ration, and their absorption is fast.And then something to maintain slower absorption, the sampling bar and a marriage Maria ... the apple is slower, because even if it is the same fruit, you have to chew it, digest it, it has more fiber and especially if you eat it with skin...
A kiss

An accuracy, juice brks are 10-12 GRMS.HC, S per 100cc, but the container has 200 cc, which is 2 portions of hydrates if you take all the juice .... Those containing 10-12 for each brik are those of "added sugars".I say it because before a hiccup I always give with sugar (although I only use half Brick), because the other raises it slower and I take the opportunity to give it as normal juice ....

I'm glad that you have taken that step: P

Thanks Velia, I hadn't fallen to specifying that.And it is important;)

Thanks girls for the councils, the juice is done since the effect immediate, but when they have been stronger, I remember one, because I took a whole of sugar a lot of cookies a glass of almost black milk with so much Nesquick, the nesquick take it to spoonfuls .. a barbarity, but it is that theSensation is so bad that I can't stand it or stand but I shouldn't do so, right?It is that I still don't know how to act in strong hypos.

On my boss, if it should be more sensitized by his mother to have been diabetic but there is also the problem, he knows what problems it entails being and my boss the wasting of time overwhelms him, and for him having to go to the bathroom to measure meGlucose, or go to eat something, that's wasting time, a long time

And alcohol was just to ask, I already tell you that I'm not drinking, but I see everything so restrictive ...

Well tomorrow touches educa, let's see what savage she tells me and at the counter I will try to ask for change.

Thank you very much !!!