15 years of shit.

I see it tomorrow, Velia.A hug.

If you are apprehensive I do not recommend it, I have seen the 2 integers and apart from the fact that it says nothing about your diabetes, or how it is controlled being blind (which was what I wanted to know).Since then every time I remember it, I am afraid of having vision problems, I am looking at if I see well or if not.: Shock:

hey, there are many more girls.You have to try to see with which one you agree .. My daughter is also very pessimistic on the subject of love, she has no luck until now.But his time will come and yours and Owash's: D

The girls are increasingly demanding (Mario Casas has done a lot of damage) and I lastly have the ugly.Although here the age influences more than diabetes.

Well, in a girl who has some weakness, she can even be tender, but in a boy it is clearly a fairly negative point, a couple of girls with which I foolish since time stopped responding to my messages the next day to tell them that it was diabetic.

Hello!
Look Xavi.When I debuted I was with a boy.I was 19 years old and was a young.He was older and told me that many 'other men' would think about it very long before going out with a diabetic girl because they would think about what was happening if I was blind, if I cut my legs ... Come on, a person's treasure.He took advantage of my debut to make me think that he would only be fine with him.Well, I opted for the kick and no boy I have met later has given importance and I don't notice to take it as a weakness.It is as if your partner smells of his feet or he has hemorrhoids and cannot take spicy ... I don't know, you want the person and in peace.If those girls have gone from you because of your diabetic status then kick because a future would also be impossible with them if they think like this ...

What people know ... It is not easy as you go from 25 ... I don't think what complicates it is diabetes, but you have to look for adequate environments.It's not like when we were 20 and linked at the disco ...

Well, if you don't understand why Owash puts the video of David Casinos, the truth is that little must be told.It is not surprising that the girls depart from you, there is nothing worse than someone who only seeks to be pity him ..... and with such negativity nobody will want to be with you ...
What I do not understand is what you are looking for in the forum, it seems that you do not want them to help you ... and I think we are very far from agreeing with you.

After reading four pages, seeing the samples of affection, support, and even motivational video, I reach the same conclusion as Prado.

Greetings.

When I debuted I was with a boy.I was 19 years old and was a young.He was older and told me that many 'other men' would think about it very long before going out with a diabetic girl because they would think about what was happening if I was blind, if I cut my legs ... Come on, a person's treasure.He took advantage of my debut to make me think that he would only be fine with him.Well, I opted for the kick and no boy I have met later has given importance and I don't notice to take it as a weakness.It is as if your partner smells of his feet or he has hemorrhoids and cannot take spicy ... I don't know, you want the person and in peace.If those girls have gone from you because of your diabetic status then kick because a future would also be impossible with them if they think like this ...

Well, the ex-boyfriend, bastard and fool for trying to manipulate you like this.They did not tell me that it was for that reason they simply disappeared the next day, but since I did not give me any reason I was starting my head, thinking whether or not it would be.

And I appreciate the samples of affection and support, but I feel that David Casino's videos do not help me, maybe I have already seen too many "motivational" videos of people with disabilities or how you want to call him, who say they are very happy and are dedicated to giving lecturesTo motivate others.Well, I'm really happy that they are happy, but that has never encouraged me.Other things encourage me, such as reading news about possible priests, better continuous insulin meters and things like that.That is the day.

Ahhh !!!So are motivational videos ?????Mmmm, what things and there will be those who have not seen them thinking that they were dramatic videos of amputated people, or blind or what do I know what barbarities, for having a diabetes ... well, I am tired and this fits me, one is also human... For my part, nothing more barracks.

A few days ago I have seen this thread and read it carefully.
I think we all agree on one thing, this disease is "shit";I guess we have all wondered why?I, of course, in the little time I live (I do not say that I suffer or suffer from it) I still ask it;When in the supermarket, or in the leisure centers, I see people with severe or very important obesity, I still ask me inside me, why not that and I do?It is a nonsense, it is as if being diabetic made you carry a sticker on the forehead with the "diabetic attention" label.
If the first days he understood that he "suffered" or "suffered" by diabetes I have learned to understand that I live with her;With his bad things, many, and his good things, much less but not less important.Of the bad I will not make any mention because we all know them;But there are good things that I have learned, self -control, discipline, that life is not the bar of a pub with friends based on combined all afternoon or daily parranda;That life makes sense and it is worth enjoying every moment.Before I didn't drink a beer, 6 in 6 fell every day, it was like drinking water;Now, having a beer, without alcohol, a fifth, a Saturday before food or dinner, is to enjoy that beer.I know that this is nonsense, but you have to take things as they come and see the good side of all things.In mine it is to have improved, although it seems a contradiction, my quality of life in all aspects, even sexual.
Xavi, there have been medical advances and many, although few seem to us.Some time, 20 years ago, an uncle of mine, diabetic, died due to hyperglycemia;I arrived in a coma to the hospital and without asking a glucosado serum;Today, surely, it would be an affable old man but growl with 80 years.
I think, and forgive me for daring to prosecute you without knowing you, and for what you write, you don't have a problem with diabetes;You have diabetes, yes, you can't deny that, but you are denying that you need psychological help and that is your real problem.Meanwhile, I think you will see everything black instead of light gray.

Hi Xavi.

I am not an old diabetic ... I only have four years of evolution, so my experience is little.But I can tell you that I live with my diabetes, nor live for her, nor she conditions my life.It's like wearing glasses, you have to put them on, clean them, check them from time to time ... (well, it's a bit more complicated than glasses, but you understand me).

Do your life again before, with all the precautions of the world, but do it.

Since the subject has come out, I diving before, and I still dive after.By law (an preconstitutional law, everything must be said) in Spain we cannot dive, because the contraindications are set for professional and amateur diving.

The reality is very different, and there are many divers diabetics.There is a security protocol, with its standards, etc ... (I look for the link and put it on you) and if you are responsible, there is no major problem to do so.

The same applies to any other risk sport, you run more risk because it is risky, than to do it being diabetic.

Life is too short to waste time lamenting the letters that have touched you.If life gives you lemons, fuck, get lemonade!And if you want I spoke a little vodka;)

For the subject women .... As Fito says: "I know that I am much more handsome when I do not feel ugly" Diabetes is not a problem in a relationship.If for any it is a problem ... it does not deserve a relationship with you.

Velia I feel fatal so you say that I have made you feel.But understand me there are moments in the life of a person who is for some thing and not for others ...

To your diabetic daughter when you are scared by diabetes that would you put a video of David Casino or one of the future advances in research?When I see that the children are even told today that they will have to punctuof the corner.

A few days ago I have seen this thread and have read it carefully.
I think we all agree on one thing, this disease is "shit";I guess we have all wondered why?I, of course, in the little time I live (I do not say that I suffer or suffer from it) I still ask it;When in the supermarket, or in the leisure centers, I see people with severe or very important obesity, I still ask me inside me, why no and I do?

I do not ask myself that, I am only curious to know why my body destroys insulin producing cells and I would not want this disease or my worst enemy.

If the first days understood that "I suffered" or "suffered" by diabetes I have learned to understand what I live with it;With his bad things, many, and his good things, much less but not less important.Of the bad I will not make any mention because we all know them;But there are good things that I have learned, self -control, discipline, that life is not the bar of a pub with friends based on combined all afternoon or daily parranda;That life makes sense and it is worth enjoying every moment.Before I didn't drink a beer, 6 in 6 fell every day, it was like drinking water;Now, having a beer, without alcohol, a fifth, a Saturday before food or dinner, is to enjoy that beer.I know that this is nonsense, but you have to take things as they come and see the good side of all things.In mine is having improved, even if it seems a contradiction, my quality of life in all aspects, even sexual.

Well, I sincerely find any positive side, and over time he has made me more lock me at home, than when I force myself to go out and do things to be afraid and have a bad time ... and the sexual problem is evidently the worst,I would not have written to this forum if it were not for it.

This morning by the way I have gone to the doctor and I have started the first tests to see what the cause is, in the end I have been paying because I could not endure the months of waiting for social security with this problem.

Xavi, medical advances have been and many, although few seem.Some time, 20 years ago, an uncle of mine, diabetic, died due to hyperglycemia;I arrived in a coma to the hospital and without asking a glucosado serum;Today, surely, it would be an affable old man but growl with 80 years.

20 years ago there were glucometers so that it was a failure of the doctors.Nobody told them that it was diabetic?My uncle who was also Diabetico Murio a month ago 60 years for hospital infection and the dry them of this disease.: (((

<Blockquote GARA "" = "" REL = "" I think, and forgive me for daring to prosecute you without knowing you, and for what you write, you do not have a problem with diabetes;You have diabetes, yes, you can't deny that, but you are denying that you need psychological help and that is your real problem.Meanwhile, I think you will see everything black instead of light gray.

I do not deny that I need psychological help, on the contrary I feel very alone, I have insomnia and a certain depressive trend, if it weren't because now IThe sexual issue worries more, I already planned to go to a psychologist from which I have read some books.But my economy does not give me for both things at once.

Hello!
Xavi, I think it's a big step that you have gone to the doctor.Surely if your sexual problem improves helps you see everything better.
The psychologist helps you but you have the solution.If you do not put from your part to encourage you, it is very difficult for anyone to get it for you.

Puff, Alex.
It has been to see your post title and I have not been able to avoid reading it, you need to read it.I have kept reading your post and I almost broke to cry.And for a few months that did not do it.But I think I can't help you.However I understand you perfectly

I am not diabetic, but my life is the same, and yes, life right now is not the same for me.Like now it is not for you or not this 15 years
And your post makes me see how life (my son) willto fight so that it is not like that.

Make the life that I have now is a bit shit, but I have the best incentive in the world that is Bruno's smile that I see every day, which tells me (dad does not abandon me now).

What is why it may be easier for me, or ... maybe not,?
I don't know, you think it's easy for your 2 -year -old son to punch you after a puncture?or have to chase him around the house and grab between 2 people to put an injection?
Or hit your head against the floor crying when you see that you have a syringe in your hand?

It is not easy, no, but what I am not telling here are the rest of the good moments that I have throughout the day and that there are many thanks to God.

I know that your circumstances are others, so I don't think I can help you.

On the other hand a diabetic is a person, and in that I can help you.And about the phrase life is shit I have already heard it a few times because I have also said it in some low times of my life, and I always remember a phrase that said

Subject to;Life is shit.
Subject B: No,
Life is not shit, life is wonderful,
If your life is shit, there is something that makes it.Find it and change it.

Cheer up.
David.-

David I don't know what to tell you, with diabetes in children and more so young, my soul leaves, I stay without words, every time I think of the thousands of children who are, how they shouldFeel and how bad the parents should pass it ... That is why I want so much to look for a cure and stop spending money on stupidities.

In what life is shit or is wonderful ... As I have told I have no life, but I already said that it is for more problems apart from diabetes.I had a car accident at the 25 that I just finished off, I caused a cervical sprain that causes me a constant sensation of being dizzy.If we add diabetes and not be able to sleep, most of the days would only serve as extra for The Walking Dead.

Hi Xavi !!I also have type I diabetes, I am 20 years old and my vision is not that it is very good.Look, having diabetes is shit, any disease is shit and more if you have to live all your life with this;But we give ourselves the quality of life ... let's see, you are doing to pain and let the disease take you, or good to say I will be happy and I will do something for it, starting with a change in attitude, of thought, perform activities that dismiss you and enjoy every moment you can live ... Look, every person who diagnoses a disease has two options, stagnate or follow !!!

Don't look at everything so black !!We have to make a little more effort, but let's not be discouraged .... for your helplessness, because looking for solutions and do not complain!

God bless you :)

David I don't know what to tell you, with diabetes in children and more so young, my soul leaves, I stay without words, every time II think of the thousands of children who are, how they should feel and how bad parents should pass it ... That is why I want so much to look for a cure and stop spending money on stupidities.

Hi Xavi !!: D I see that we continue with the same thoughts ..... Well man, I think we all want a "cure" for diabetes, that touches us more closely ... but, look that I have read everything written sinceI wrote, and I can't think of anymore, I can tell you :( ... or yes ?: Idea: "If you can't against the enemy, join him," and of course, you also have the option to continueMade a shit waiting for world governments to use their resources well, for scientists to put "all their science" on the grill and bualá !!!Diabetes: Twisted :, ... how life without diabetes is a path of roses ...
By the way I would not define the videos of David Cisneros as motivational !!! they are not of the type "how to get blind, be diabetic and not die in attempt" for me, they are "admirable and very educational lives" and he is just an example ofSomeone with a pair of ... as well as my parents or parents of those "sweet" children: D

In what life is shit or is wonderful ... As I have told I have no life, but I already said that it is for more problems apart from diabetes.I had a car accident at the 25 that I just finished off, I caused a cervical sprain that causes me a constant sensation of being dizzy.If we add the diabetes and not be able to sleep, most of the days would only serve as extra for The Walking Dead.

Well, we will have to talk to Pedro Almodovar, for example, to see if they take us as extras: Mrgreen: what would be saved in interpretation classes !! ... if you do not love yourself with what you are, nobodyHe is going to want, we all like the smile and the good faces ... but what has said but have life why try to make it wonderful, normal, disastrous ...?
Think about it.
All the best

Xavi, life is not shit, I assure you, even in your situation, that I do not argue that your situation is not hard, but others are worse, and of course, better.
Life is as you want to carry within your possibilities or impediments, call it as you want, but if you lock yourself in yourself, you will see life as you now see shit, as I have told you, live inside how you can do it, enjoy theGood moments, try to forget the bad moments, both previous and those that come to you in the future, enjoy your environment, family, friends, and you will see how little by little you will change, do not wait for how you say you force yourself to go out and when you arriveYou think that your life has not changed, it is not yes, it is over time, life is a vicious circle, if you are fine your environment is fine and that will make you feel better, instead if you are wrong your environment every day will beWorse and you will feel every moment worse, and I think what is happening to you, there are people like you, or you think that you are alone, no, and live with what they have, that we all would like to be healthy, that this diseaseOr others do not have them, of course everyone thinks, but those diseases are there, we have who we have them, and we have to learn to live with them and I already tell you that it is the disease that is and of the Indole thatbe.
The problems that have no solution, are not problems, have no solution.
The problems that have solution are not problems, they have a solution.
From here, you only have 2 solutions to face your problems and the years that you have to enjoy them (hopefully you have many) or you know, lead a life every day, but be careful, do not sink you, also your environment, andEspecially the ones who suffer most from this daily are the kids, think about the boy.

Xavi, I am new in the forum and somehow I have reached your post ....... I agree 100% EB what you express to this cursed disease ...... I have been diagnosed for 8 years, I was diagnosedAt 17 and now I am 25 years old ....... Like you, I have a good control of the disease ... but in tow?of a constant Stress life ..... a lot of money ..... and exhaustion.I have read everything they have put on your message and have read all the messages of breath and etc, which I have also read in other pages similar to this, "do not let it control you, be happy, etc", they are all hooves, the disease will always be there, it is true that it does not prevent you from "enjoying" certain things of life, but those activities that you can do, never do them without "worry" in a latent way about this damn disease, since theFinal always impact somehow your being ............ Regarding your helplessness, I am a man, I still do not suffer from that condition, but I know it is a matter of time for me to come, and toDespite not being helpless, I have suffered from hypoglycemia during sex, making it clear that even the disease is put in that ............

Sorry but I felt the need to express what I feel in front of diabetes in this forum destined for the theme in question.

German

Well after reading each post carefully, I am surprised by so much together, a person who writes an issue in which he tells for the circumstance that is insignificant that his life is and nobody writes in capital letters anyone close to where he resides offers as a friend@, to know each other, include him in his group, or to have a simple and insignificant coffee.I find it really curious, but giving up what I have been registered here in the forum and even with evidence, any topic that is to know each other, perform some activity, etc. in which we have to do with the jeta and get out of the anonymity that they give usThe new Nanai technologies of China.To say that my life is not very different from that of Xabi and although the phrase of this song would change it for that of a Melendi song "that a whore is the life of which he does not want to live" in clear figurative way.I am 37 for 37 years debut with 12 years, I remember being on vacation in Mallorca, several families with children of similar ages organized by the City Council, so there was a 500 ml cocacola, I remember that one day I found myself bad (dizziness, vomiting ... DemasiadaCocacola), at the end of those vacations and after insisting my mother for an analytical, jump the alarm.The next thing was to take me to a specialized unit for Red Cross Diabetics, it was to get and give me a syringe and have to click on (I who had them panic and when I saw a toxicman changed my sidewalk for fear that I would like to click with the syringuilla) that curiosities has this life were hooked to a syringe for pleasure and I from is instant for necessity.There they also began the fries of lies that are being investigated and that there will soon be a cure, but while you can make normal life, I know that I will die with this and I will not see that hypothetical "cure", then they are all restrictions, if you do weights that do notIt is suitable for the blood vessels, if you make boxing it is not good for the blows, so a great etc .. then I do 30 minutes with a cane.I was admitted, I was the kid in a place full of older people, who had to wait for them to get bored of watching TV to watch Benji and Oliver.That year was the end of the course trip to which I was not.To say that proceeding from a town of just 5000 inhabitants anyone who proceeds or alive in a similar place will know what I speak.That my mother had to come to have to measure glucose to school and have to leave class, knowing that it would be the member of others I created an anger.From here I also want to thank my mother for the full dedication to have to charge with a responsibility that was not his and that still carries with him because whoever writes never assumed or assumed to be what he is.It was when I think I started creating my own Frankestein (very different from the novel), I became introverted, inexpressive, serious, cold, reserved, shy, insecure, fearful and great etc .. because they would not see me different, because they would not see it as a weakness, a reason for damaging for free.Adolescence Well, I had my childhood friends, I went on vacation, I went out and foolish with the occasional.As Xabi always says, with the mind put in what I was and to what I owed, having everything pre -planned was the only way to have a certain security.But always with the thought put on the clock, leave a weekend without knowing the time, it was complicated, I decided to get the meat and wearing the car I set when returning.At that time of the twenty -five began the first love disappointments, not because they said clearly for diabetes but it was not a denial, the thoughts of whether this disease would affect to find that half orange to which all that all would have to which we would have to have to find that all we would have tobe entitled.A little of all those chains that oneself gets and that fear or cowardice toRisking, they made not a priority.To say that good in terms of work, I started in one that at that time at all reported a good income until the globe began to deflate, we had to look for something else, I have always liked to play sports and keep my own so I opt for somethingThat there are many posts here to which we cannot aspire, I am an example that yes, with a lot of suffering, fear and make many calls.But I achieve it and declare it.Although as some comment read, I count my secret more intimate did not go through my head or drunk.Life continued, my childhood friends for kids of kids end each on the one hand, I started dating other acquaintances, but being younger and wearing another roll for fun I decided to put land in between.As I have advised I changed mym, I met other people, but if I have learned something in an opposition is that anything is usable and telling my secret did not consider that it will give me anything positive but on the contrary.Today, those people I met and who already had their lives made and are the ones I consider friends do not know that I am diabetic, nor my coworkers.It can be a big mistake, but I also think it is a challenge to myself to be aware in every second that I cannot let diabetes can affect myself especially in hypoglycemia mode.Now I find an age similar to Xabi and you see that everything is dark, loneliness, you look at the phone to look, you know that there will be no WhatsApp, or called.Finding a girl, girlfriend, couple, companion or friend is at the level of getting a primitive.Everyone recommends going to psychologists, going out, doing what you like, looking for some friends (in Secondamano) I ask how many are capable of getting alone? Because I am not able.The truth is that time passes and does not recover, there are people who attract nothing and there are those who do not, perhaps it is for that of the vicious circle or because without a smile nobody approaches, but it is also true that without leaving home it is alsoImpossible and who says something of "online test" if it is already difficult face to face we do not talk about the wonders of the Internet.I feel you fuck the post xabi with my story that little contributes, I just hope that fate has a minimum of consideration and let us taste a small sample of that happiness that some enjoy and others are denied or we are not denying itourselves.all the best

Hi @luvi,

I have read all your comment, it is long, but it was worth it, I have been diabetic for 17 years, I agree with you that diabetes conditions and much about going out and drinking, the controls, being thinking about how I will be?I get up?, me?

Apart from that, I believe that the rest is a question of life itself, nobody is perfect, no one, who does not have this has anything else, but better or worse, everyone gets ahead, I know people who have difficulties even to talk toOthers, and yet, with more than 45 years, this summer has found a person with whom to go on vacation, and like this, I would tell you many other cases, do not let yourself fall into despair, animate, it is not a question ofPutting to dance, is a matter of finding things to do and people with whom to do them, no matter what, but you can do it with more people and that you feel good.;)

Greetings,
Fer

In that we are Fer, in finding people who deserve the penalty and I suppose that since many and occasion he will have thought of "and who better than people suffering from my same disease" but not even with those is so easy in sight is.It is clear that there are worse people and many people to be better, that is so, just like each person does not look beyond their belly but as long as it does not affect me.

@Luvi, I would not look for only people who have diabetes, that greatly reduces the circle, it is better to simply find an activity in which you have a good time and know people, it can be the new gym you say, or learn English asSpanish exchange, etc ...

I have ever used this website, you may know it, Link

Greetings,
Fer